How we helped a separated couple experiencing tensions in communication

A couple with a 12 y.o. child separated. In a relatively short time, each of them repartnered. The separated parents were still trying to work through parenting arrangements so this new scenario made things even more difficult for them. The father initiated family dispute resolution (FDR) mediation through Better Place Australia. This case study explores how we helped the separated couple experiencing tensions in communication.

FDR practitioner Eliza shared, “The parents were really having difficulties communicating since they repartnered. Everyone’s emotions were high, everyone’s anxiety level can be high. Each of the parents were trying to navigate these new relationships and make that work.

“They also had to try and navigate their relationship with the other parent [former partner’s new partner]” shared Eliza.

The separated couple needed to know what parenting would like moving forward now that they were in blended families with their new partners.

Eliza shared, “It was further complicated by the fact that they wanted their child to spend time with their new step siblings as well. The key here was around communication being between the parents, not between the parent and one of the new partners, or between the new partners. It was about juggling the post separation parenting work and their communication going forward.”

The first few sessions were muddied by the fear of the partners intruding into that parenting arrangement.

What was the outcome?

Listen to the podcast below where Eliza shares her strategy to help this separated couple and what the outcome was.

What can Better Place Australia family dispute resolution do?

Family Dispute Resolution can help separated couples:

• negotiate parenting arrangements
• consider the parental responsibilities of each parent
• navigate complex issues and have difficult conversations
• negotiate mutually acceptable outcomes
• reduce the emotional impact of separation by potentially avoiding a court process
• reduce legal costs and potentially achieve an outcome in a timelier manner
• divide property and discuss financial matters.

Appointments for FDR

You can access the Better Place Australia Family Dispute Resolution service by telephone and video appointments, or face-to-face at the following sites:

• Cheltenham
• Croydon
• Oakleigh
• Narre Warren
• Traralgon
• Wyndham Vale

Enquiries about cost and beginning the process

Enquire here.